Do
you ever feel like you’re hiding the real you just to make other
people happy? Do you find yourself saying yes when on the inside, you're screaming to say no? You feel guilty and blame yourself when you can't make other people happy? It’s so easy to do. You make everyone else’s life a priority and it becomes the expectation.
Living
your life this way is a recipe for disaster. What about the person inside that’s just yearning to come out? What is her big dream? You’ve forgotten how
to make your heart sing. You’ve lost that feeling of innocence
where you believed that anything is possible. What's
important to remember though is that you're a human BEING, not a
human DOING--and you simply can't do everything for everyone.
Signs that you might be a chronic people pleaser:
- Fear of being alone or abandoned
- Feeling selfish, or guilty for not meeting the needs of others
- Feeling not good enough, or "too much" or "too little"
- Diminishing yourself in order to lift up others
- Being everyone's "go to" person
- Getting caught in others' trauma and drama
- Rescuing or fixing others, to your demise
- Covering or taking a fall for others
- Enduring unhealthy relationships to avoid loneliness
- Giving of your finances and other resources to depletion
- Having an addict, user, abuser, or narcissist in your life
- Having self-limiting or self-sabotaging beliefs..."there's not enough time/support/money" or "It's impossible"
- Over-responsibility or doing more than your fair share
This
course explores and tackles ways that chronic people pleasing has impaired your
life and, more importantly, it will show you how to repair it. In a supportive group environment, you'll
be guided through a process of realization so that, finally, you can
start to live YOUR desired life--on your terms.
Who will benefit most from this course?
- Professional healers and coaches
- Empaths, and Highly Sensitive People who take on the energy of people and situations
- Anyone who is in a helping profession, or a personal caregiver
- Anyone in a relationship with an addict, abuser, or narcissistic type personality and feels drained, sick and tired
- Those seeking to become self-actualized and achieve long-held desires
- Anyone who gives to others and is a natural nurterer
I know you. You have a high level of needing to care for others. You’re willing to let go of any and all of your needs to serve a greater good. You have amazing adaptability and great willpower. You have an innate skill in soothing and calming other people. You’re a natural empath and highly intuitive. Generous. Sensitive. Deep. Compassionate. Loving. A value-centered change agent. An inspirer. A truth seeker.
You want to make people happy. You want people to approve of you. You want to feel loved and appreciated.
BUT WHEN YOU HAVE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL BLOCKS THAT AFFECT YOUR SENSE OF SELF-CONFIDENCE, SELF-WORTH AND SELF-RESPECT, IT BECOMES IMPOSSIBLE TO REACH YOUR GOALS.
It’s time for the true you to shine!
In this course you'll learn how to:
- Heal your the chronic people pleaser within you
- Care for YOURSELF the way you care so deeply for other people
- Break free from negative emotions like fear, depression, anxiety and guilt
- Feel more joy, peace, passion and confidence (i.e. energetic and healthy!!)
- Feel secure with your finances
- Set bigger goals and get out of your own way
What you can expect:
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DESCRIBE ANY “INNER CHANGES” YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED AFTER WORKING through the course?
My confidence was resurrecting, I couldn’t believe I had forgotten my own power. I. Have. Power. Yep, turns out it’s true!! I couldn’t believe I stopped seeing myself as capable of walking my own path, it had happened so subtly I hadn’t even noticed. I had acquiesced to my environment and had had a slow death.
I can actually work towards providing my OWN security. I can actually CRAFT an idea, that may even sound CRAZY at first, but you are going to walk me through the process to see how I can make it real? And it can be something I enjoy doing??? Now you’re just talking crazy to me……but she wasn’t!!!!
I started looking at EVERY situation differently. I was keenly aware of my responses, reactions, voices in my head (most of which belonged to other uninvited people) and I found my power to manage those reactions based on MY set of intentions.
"I took back power, I created boundaries, I adjusted relationships, I found ways to be true to myself and no longer the slave to the image I was expected to be."-Lana C. @thehippygypsylife
Your Instructor
It is my mission to help women who find themselves trapped and playing small bring meaning to their lives, to shine with their own brilliant uniqueness and to take their life experiences and create something magnificent from it.
I have X-ray vision for seeing the fears and limiting beliefs that keep you limited in your fulfillment and spinning in circles. I blend intuition and compassionate listening to clear the inner blocks that are keeping you playing small and stuck in that cycle of giving away your power.